[mythtvnz] commection refused

[Alex Marshall]

Upgrade to 16.04 and myth 0.28 and everything was working okay apart
from mythweb which i don't really care about.

mysql upgraded and now my backend is refusing connections from the frontend.

I can watch live tv and recordings on my backend nut not accepting
remote connections.

Error message is
mythsocket.cpp 739 Failed to connect connect to host (ip address)
connection refused

Output from netstat
tcp        0      0 127.0.0.1:6543          0.0.0.0:*
LISTEN      3657/mythbackend
tcp        0      0 127.0.0.1:6544          0.0.0.0:*
LISTEN      3657/mythbackend
tcp        0      0 127.0.0.1:6549          0.0.0.0:*
LISTEN      3657/mythbackend
tcp        0      0 127.0.1.1:53            0.0.0.0:*
LISTEN      3673/dnsmasq
tcp        0      0 0.0.0.0:3000            0.0.0.0:*
LISTEN      4937/ntop
tcp        0      0 127.0.0.1:6554          0.0.0.0:*
LISTEN      3657/mythbackend

The ip address is correct any help welcome